I'm heartbroken to let everyone know that Rich passed away this afternoon just before 3pm. After such an inspiring and positive fight, he was no longer able to fight against deadly Mel. His family and I are comforted by the fact that he passed on very peacefully. I had asked Father Steve (the former pastor at our neighborhood Church) to stop by and say a prayer for Rich this morning as he was starting to fade away. Father Steve was joined by Paula ( who plays a soothing harp) and Billie who also brought along her prayer book. Rich's parents were also present. After Father Steve said a final prayer, Rich passed on. It was a sad for us, yet very calming for Rich.
Thanks to everyone who has sent us emails, thoughts, prayers and hugs. I am grateful that we have such a wonderful community and that Rich and I have so many thoughtful and supportive friends. Mostly, I will always cherish the time that Rich was in my life. Nine years ago today, we went on our first date.
As soon as plans are firm, I will post information on services as well as where to send donations (for those who would like to honor Rich's memory).
21 comments:
You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry to hear of this sad news.
Michelle, We are so sad. We admire you for the courage and strength you've shown throughout Rich's ordeal. We are here if you need anything. Sonya, Tony, Brendan and Derek
Oh Michelle,
I am so sad for you. Rich was one of the loveliest people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I am so grateful to have been a part of his life, and he of mine, if only sporadically. The ordeal the two of you have been through is finally over, but I am afraid that the hardest part is yet to come. You have had so much strength during these last couple of years, and I know you'll find more to endure what lies ahead. You are obviously surrounded by a loving and generous community of friends and family to support you during this difficult time in which, of course, you know I am one. I am here for you.
We are so sad. Rich has touched all of our lives, and we will miss him dearly. Please know that Ray and I are here for you, for whatever you need, and we'll plan a trip to California soon so we can be in person and help you with anything. We love you and our hearts go out to you and Lucy.
Elaine, Ray, and Alex
Michelle,
We are so sorry. Our thought are with you guys. You are such a strong person.
Audrey & Lucky
Michelle,
I am so very sad for you and Lucy that Rich passed away yesterday. My thoughts and prayers were already with you and continue even moreso now.
Linda V,
Michelle,
I was so sad to hear from Ron and Gena that Rich passed away. He fought a valiant fight, but know that he is at peace now. Hope you and Lucy will find peace in fond memories you both have.
Donna & Garrett Wada
Michelle - am so sorry to hear about your loss but also happy that he is in a better place now and feels no pain anymore.
orange
thinking of you and family. take care.
Phuong K.
Michelle, Lucy and family,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Teri, Jeff, Claire & Max
Michelle and Lucy,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Words cannot begin to console you in this time of sorrow. Be comforted by knowing that he is at last at peace and was loved, cherished and will always be remembered as a kind and caring person. I'm happy that I had the opportunity to see him during the reunion.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and Lucy.
Matt D.
Michelle and Lucy,
I’m so very sorry to hear this sad news. Rich was a warm, kind, generous person with a great sense of humor. He was a true inspiration throughout his most recent challenge, even in his final days. His soul will surely live on in all of us whose lives he touched. I’m so grateful to have been even a very small part of his life, and glad that he is at peace now. May God bless you and your family with peace and understanding.
With love and prayers,
-Dave Wilusz
Michelle and Lucy,
Our hearts go out to you and your/Rich's family. We are so sad to hear the news but know that Rich is at peace.
Jerilyn & Soheil
Michelle, Our thoughts are with you and Lucy during this time. Rich was a fabulous person, and we so enjoyed him when all of you were able to come to our home for the birthdays. Rich is at peace now and will always be remembered in your heart, as well as ours. Take care.
Joanne & Paul Hart
Dear Michelle & Lucy, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Rich is so lucky to have had led the life he did with wonderful friends and an amazing family. We're lucky to have had a chance to know such a caring and fun-loving spirit like Rich. Michelle, I remember how much you changed Rich's life when you started dating, you gave him such happiness and light. The light grew even brighter with little Lucy's arrival and those happy memories will live on forever.
We will miss his him dearly.
Cathy & Mike
Our thoughts are with you and Lucy at this time. I am sure Rich will always be with you in your hearts and watching over you both.
Always, Yasuko & Peter
I worked with Rich for a few years at Mixonic. I'm so sorry for all that has happened. You are in my thoughts. - kathleen
I'm a fellow parent at Lucy's preschool. I was so sad to hear of the loss of Rich. Know that so many people's thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kari
I am stunned, shocked, and very sad at this news. I hope that Michelle and Lucy can find peace, and know that Rich's spirit is strong and bright as ever-- He was a bright soul while he was living, too.
Luca, Dave and I send our deepest sympathy and prayers to aid you in this difficult time. - Carmen (was Schwagerl) Juszczyk
Michelle,
I haven't met you yet but want you to know that Rich touched many, many people including me. I met him at Haas and was always inspired by his energy, enthusiasm and integrity. You are truly blessed to have been his wife, and I hope you can be encouraged by the fact that his legacy lives on not only in you and Lucy, but in many others who were enriched by having known him.
Diane Bisgeier
Michelle - Although we haven't met, I knew Richie well in high school. We ran Cross Country together and and you get to talk a lot during long runs (and sometimes walks). He was a great guy, but I'm sure that you already know that. I wish you all the best and thank you so much for taking good care of him. All the best to you.
Mike Hughes
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